Are you a person who only looks at end results or are you someone
who looks at the effort put it?

I think its really shallow if you're someone who only looks at end results. Because you neglect all the effort put in into achieving it. For example, if someone gets you a gift and you don't like it, chances are you will smile and say thank you. But if inside you are thinking of how shitty your present is instead of how much effort was put in to finding it then you are someone who just looks at end results.

Im not sure which i am. i appreciate effort but i have the impression that when someone buys you a gift, they just picked it off the shelf conveniently. they didnt put in the effort to make sure the present is suitable for you.

maybe i have trust issues. I always think that people's concern is fake. And everytime they talk to me, they have a motive or are being sarcastic. So i dont really trust what people say unless i know you are an extremely honest friend.

sigh.