would you want your mom to be honest with you if you were fat or growing fatter? i would. and im going to be one of those moms who would tell my kid they are fat too. like how hypocritical am i gonna be if i watch my diet like a hawk next time but to my daughter whose social life is at risk, i just tell her she's beautiful the way she is and keep feeding her, right? social standards. i know my kid will thank me next time.

of course how she takes it is a different matter la. but on my end i think its my job to be honest. ok im doing my leadership project now and i can't seem to focus thus all these random thghts haha.